31 Lessons from 31 Years on Earth

From my perspective as a guy in his mid-forties, 31 is still pretty young, but the guy shows he’s picked up some solid wisdom in his 31 trips around the sun.

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My favorite part of this post is not the fact that he tells us 31 lessons he’s learned, but the fact that he has for each year he was alive.

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This 31st birthday, I went back and considered 31 valuable lessons that coincide with each year of my life. Some are specific to personal finance and investing, while others are general.

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31 Lessons from 31 Years on Earth

I, like you, was a helpless little butterball. Thankfully, human parents make huge sacrifices to help their helpless kids. But that courtesy ends at some point. Eventually, you’ve got to learn to help yourself.

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2) Be Nice to Bigger Fish

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3) Play Games

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4) Some People Want to Watch the World Burn

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Embarrassed about I-don’t-remember-what, I threw a kickball (in anger!) at my gym teacher when she tried to console me.

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Teachers, it turns out, disapprove of students hurling kickballs at them. I compounded one small negative with a much larger one. Don’t let your negatives compound.

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31 Lessons from 31 Years on Earth

From my perspective as a guy in his mid-forties, 31 is still pretty young, but the guy shows he’s picked up some solid wisdom in his 31 trips around the sun.

My favorite part of this post is not the fact that he tells us 31 lessons he’s learned, but the fact that he has for each year he was alive.

This 31st birthday, I went back and considered 31 valuable lessons that coincide with each year of my life. Some are specific to personal finance and investing, while others are general.

31 Lessons from 31 Years on Earth

I, like you, was a helpless little butterball. Thankfully, human parents make huge sacrifices to help their helpless kids. But that courtesy ends at some point. Eventually, you’ve got to learn to help yourself.

1) It’s Tough Being Helpless

2) Be Nice to Bigger Fish

3) Play Games

4) Some People Want to Watch the World Burn

Embarrassed about I-don’t-remember-what, I threw a kickball (in anger!) at my gym teacher when she tried to console me.

5) Don’t Compound Your Negatives

Teachers, it turns out, disapprove of students hurling kickballs at them. I compounded one small negative with a much larger one. Don’t let your negatives compound.

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