When the Hedonic Treadmill hits Ludicrous Speed
The concept, which I referred to in posts about having enough and financial freedom, essentially means that the benefits of lifestyle inflation tend to be short-lived as you rapidly reset your baseline to the new normal.
The shine of the new and improved object or experience tarnishes and the only way to get it back is to upgrade again. It can become a vicious cycle. Continuing to upgrade to more, bigger, and better things essentially has you on a treadmill going ever faster and you’re doing all you can to not fall flat on your face.
“It’s not having what you want. It’s wanting what you’ve got” – Sheryl Crow, Soak Up the Sun
The problem is there will always be something better than what you’ve got. When you get something better, you’ll eventually want the best. When you get the best thing, you find out your boss has two of them. And he’s jealous of the guy who has more, or something he had never heard of but is actually better than what was thought to be the best!
Take flying, for example. The basic economy folks might like to fly business class. The business class envies the first class passengers. The first class cabin dreams of one day having a NetJets subscription.
Once you start using that subscription, you see jetsetters with their own private planes, each wanting to do one another with bigger and better airplanes. No matter how many times you upgrade, there will always be someone with something better.
I try to stay off the treadmill by keeping special things special as I outlined in Make it a Treat. It’s an important lesson to learn and your life will be better and your pockets fuller once you embrace the concept of the hedonic treadmill.
Further Reading on the hedonic treadmill:
- What is Hedonic Adaptation and How Can it Turn You Into a Sucka? by Mr. Money Mustache
- The Hedonic Treadmill – If Only Happiness Were As Easy As Marriage, a Big House, and Kids by Happier Human
- Running on The Hedonic Treadmill by The Simple Dollar
- The Hedonic Treadmill: From Overconsumption to Minimalism by Virginia Counseling
- Make Your Life Upgrade Proof by The Happy Philosopher
Spending Millions Monthly
Perhaps you saw the headlines recently. Johnny Depp has been appearing in them regularly, and lately it’s been mostly negative press. Did you happen to read how he’s been spending his money?
He sued his money managers who in turn filed a countersuit detailing why Mr. Depp is having money troubles. Some of the more outrageous findings are:
- He has spent $75 million on 14 residences.
- He spent $18 million on a 150 foot yacht.
- He spent $3 Million to shoot Hunter S. Thompson‘s ashes from a cannon.
- His 45 luxury autos, 70+ collectible guitars, art and memorabilia cost untold millions.
- He has 40 employees on payroll earning nearly $100,000 a year on average.
- Wine for personal consumption totalled $30,000 per month.
- He has dealt with credit card debt, numerous overdrafts, and personal debts in the millions of dollars.
E-mail exchanges between financial advisor and him show just how out of touch Mr. Depp has become. Around the holidays, he wrote,
“i am doing my very best on holiday spending, but there is only so much i can do, as i need to give my kiddies and families as good a Christmas as possible, obviously within reason.”
I can’t help but wonder what “within reason” means to someone who reportedly burns through $2 Million a month.
Lessons from Johnny Depp
The number one lesson I take from the revelations is that any income can be overspent. In peak years, Johnny Depp earned $100 Million or more. Somehow, and it took Brewster’s Millions type spending, he was able to spend hundreds of millions of dollars.
I should point out that despite the lawsuits and bad publicity, it does not appear that he is destitute. This site estimates his current net worth at $200 Million although the bulk of that may very well be tied up in the assets he has purchased (homes, yacht, art, etc…)
But is he happy?
Circling back to that Sheryl Crow quote, I think it’s fair to say that a man who spends $2 Million a month is not content with what he’s got. He’s chasing more. Perhaps he’s chasing happiness.
I have no idea how happy the man is, but if I went through an expensive divorce, had my dirty laundry aired in a multimillion dollar lawsuit, and attracted the attention of the President’s Secret Service all over the course of a year, I don’t think I’d be a particularly happy camper.
I recently read that regardless of income, a survey showed that people consistently say their ideal income is 20% higher than their current income. Whether a person makes $30,000, $300,000, or $3,000,000 a year, we are programmed to believe more would be better.
I think we’d all be better off if we learned to happy wanting what we’ve got.
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Have you found yourself spinning your wheels on a hedonic treadmill? Could you find a way to burn through millions upon millions of dollars per year? What would you do with that kind of money? Sound off below!