It’s true. Selling a home by owner is not nearly as difficult or complicated as most people assume. I speak from experience, having done so 4 times in the last decade including twice in 2021.
Why would one go to the trouble of putting a home up for sale by owner when there are plenty of professionals who would gladly list the house for you?
Money. That’s why. Realtors’ fees add up, and the more frequently you move, the more painful they can be, substantially reducing your return on investment.
Truthfully, it’s best not to think of your primary home as an investment, but as a necessary expense that may pay for itself and then some if all goes well. Selling by owner can significantly improve your odds of coming out ahead.
Homes We’ve Sold By Owner
Before we dive in, I want to say that I’m not anti-realtor. There are situations where it makes perfect sense to employ the services of a real estate professional.
I sold my condo from residency, our dream home from my first “permanent” anesthesia job, and some lakefront property, all with the assistance of realtors, and also within the last decade.
In two of those situations, I was living out of state, and I wasn’t around to show the places. With the lakefront, we listed it with the same realtor that helped us buy the property, and we also were living a ways away.
These below are the homes that we sold ourselves.
Aberdeen, South Dakota
After the hospital in northern Michigan went bankrupt — that was where I had my first “permanent” job — we headed west for a great job at a new hospital, and we bought a 5 bedroom, 3 bathroom home with 3,800 square feet for $325,000 in 2012.
Two years later, it was clear that we were too far from home, and an opportunity came along to take a job close to my parents in a beautiful and familiar area in northern Minnesota.
We listed the house ourselves for $359,000 and it sold within weeks for $342,000 in 2014.
After accounting for some home improvements we had done, including adding radiant heat to the attached garage and a new epoxy floor for it, we got back what we had into it, plus a little bit more.
When you factor in property taxes, maintenance and repairs, and other costs of home ownership, it was a break-even deal at best. But avoiding about $20,000 in realtor fees was huge.
This was the location of my final “permanent” job as an anesthesiologist. We found a great mid-century home with 4 bedrooms, 2.5 baths, and about 3,600 finished square feet on the Mississippi River for sale by owner, and we bought it late in 2014 for $269,000.
Over the next five-plus years, we had some major projects completed on the property, including a new $25,000 retaining wall, replacing the deck and excavating out a spot for a large, enclosed patio beneath it. We also had the garage roof replaced.
In 2019, with plans to move back to northern Michigan, we listed our home for sale by owner at $339,000 and it sold for $328,000 rather quickly. This despite a realtor friend of mine suggesting a list price of $275,000 after touring the home and reviewing “comparables.”
We had put more than $50,000 into the property with the various projects, so much like the Aberdeen house, we may have “broken even” or not, depending on what expenses you include, but we certainly did not come out much ahead.
About six weeks before my position at the local hospital was eliminated, I attended an auction and came home with a little vacation property on Mullett Lake, 7 miles south of town. We would be able to boat to it from our house, bike to it along the bike path, or drive the 10 to 15 minutes whenever we wanted.
That dream came crashing down later that summer, but the cabin turned out to be a great place to spend time every summer. With much of my wife’s family in the area, it was nice to have a place of our own there, and this cabin is where we moved to when we left Minnesota in 2019.
We paid $15,400 at auction (not a typ0), and we put about $50,000 into a completely new floor-to-ceiling interior and an exterior paint job for a cost basis of about $65,000 total.
Ten years after the auction, we sold our place by owner in July of 2021 for $203,000 after listing it for $198,000. The buyers were working with a realtor, but we requested that the buyers pay the agent’s fees, which they did.
We did pay some of the closing costs, including the title insurance and transfer taxes, which were over $3,000 combined, but we saved over $12,000 in realtors’ fees, and the closing fees we did pay are commonly paid by the seller, anyway.
The cabin in Cheboygan was a great place to be, but it had no garage and at 800 square feet, it was 70% smaller than our home in Minnesota. We needed a place for our stuff, and while we had been looking for a proper lake home for a couple of years, we hadn’t had much luck.
We considered renting storage space long-term, but we heard nightmares about things getting ruined over time from moisture and critters. We looked into buying or building a pole barn, but the same risks applied.
Eventually, we settled on a small, mid-century home with a 2-car garage that could be a second landing spot for when we weren’t traveling. We bought it for $90,000 in August of 2019, and believe it or not, it was move-in ready at that price.
When we finally found a property on a nearby lake that could house us and be our next “forever home,” in the spring of 2021, it was time to sell both the Mullett Lake cabin above and this house.
I had been contacted out of the blue by a woman who was very interested in buying our home if we ever were interested in selling just months earlier. We did choose to put the home up for sale by owner, but we gave her a sneak preview before beginning official showings, and she returned a couple of times with family.
We asked for $118,000, expecting that we’d get more, as everything was selling for over asking price. Not surprisingly we had several offers over our asking price, and it sold to the woman who had expressed an early interest. We sold it for $143,000 in May of 2021 and the buyer paid all closing costs.
The Savings from Selling By Owner
If you add up the sales price from these four properties, you’ll come up with just over a million dollars. $1,016,000 to be exact.
A traditional real estate transaction with a realtor or two realtors involved will typically cost the seller about 6% of the sales price, plus or minus one percent. 6% of a million dollars is $60,000.
Two of our four transactions were completely sans realtors.
In one of the others, the buyer was working with a buyer’s agent, and we ended up paying their 3% fee. In the last one, as mentioned above, the buyer paid the real estate agent’s fee. That’s atypical, but as you may be aware, 2021 will not be remembered as a typical year for real estate. It was a seller’s market, for sure.
Altogether, we saved about $50,000 by selling four homes ourselves. If we weren’t in such low cost-of-living areas, our sales prices and savings would be substantially higher.
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How to Sell Your Home By Owner
How do you go about selling a place yourself?
This won’t be an exhaustive guide. There are books for that, none of which I’ve read. I’ll simply share my experiences and the tips I’ve picked up having sold a few houses myself.
Before You List Your Home
Pay attention to home sales in your area. Try to find similar homes in your neighborhood or those like yours that have sold recently. Zillow lets you search sold homes by map. Spend some time browsing and take notes.
Decide on a Listing Price
Similar home sales should be a primary consideration, but also think about how quickly you want or need the home sold, how low you’d be willing to go, and what competitive advantage your home may have over other homes currently for sale or recently sold.
Also realize that not everyone will value the features that you do.
If you’re looking to get top dollar, take what you think would be fair, and add 5% to 10%. If you’re impatient and just want a quick sale, price it on the low side.
Stage Your Home
If the home sells, you’ve got to get all of your crap out anyway, so start before you even list it. Declutter, take down family photos, and box up anything that makes the home feel less spacious. This might mean taking out some furniture.
You want people to be able to envision making your home theirs, and that’s tougher to do when it looks crowded or has too many of your own personal touches.
If you don’t have access to a decent camera or don’t have an eye for photography, you may want to hire this step out to a professional. It may cost you a few hundred dollars, but that’s nothing to the tens of thousands you can save in realtor fees.
A wide angle lens is helpful, especially for bedrooms and bathrooms. Also, make sure the home is well lit, with windows open and lights on. Counterintuitively, you may get the best pictures on an overcast day when the sun doesn’t create harsh shadows and sharp contrast. A more narrow dynamic range is your friend.
Don’t forget to take exterior photos from a variety of angles. When you create your listing, don’t be afraid to use an interior photo as the cover photo if it’s more striking than the standard exterior shot.
I’ve had a realtor tell me not to include too many photos; it’s best to give a sneak preview but leave enough to the imagination that the buyer will want to see the home in person. I understand the psychology, but I like to give the potential buyer as many opportunities to say “ooh, I like that” as possible, so I take and display lots of photos for my listings.
Listing Your Home For Sale By Owner
Where do you list it? And how? This has evolved over the years, and what worked in 2021 and before may not work as well in the future, but here’s what I’ve done.
I mentioned Zillow before because it’s been my go-to source as a buyer for years. It’s a very user-friendly website with great search functions and filters. They also own Trulia, so a listing at Zillow will also get your home listed on Trulia.com, a similar site.
A negative to Zillow is a relatively new feature that may hide your listing from people who don’t click on “Other Listings” when browsing the site.
Nevertheless, it costs nothing to list your home on Zillow, and they’ve quite a few resources to help you understand the process of selling your home.
Creating the listing is straightforward. Come up with an accurate text description that entices people to want your home or at least to want to see it. Upload your photos, state your price, and submit.
Note that Zillow can take up to 72 hours to approve the listing, which can be maddening if you weren’t aware of this and you planned on it going live on a certain date. Ask me how I know.
The website hasn’t changed much in 20 years, and I’m guessing it’s not the first place many people go to find a home, but we actually saw our Minnesota home on Craigslist before noticing the sign as we drove by in person.
A listing on Craigslist is free; you don’t even have to have an account. You’ve already got the pictures and description from your Zillow / Trulia listing, and when you submit your listing to Craigslist, it will be live almost instantly.
One of the reasons Craigslist is used less often is that Facebook Marketplace has taken off in recent years. I hadn’t even considered listing our home here, but my wife mentioned it, and I figured “why not?”.
She was on to something. When I listed our Alpena home, the listing got tons of comments, people tagging friends who might be interested, and we booked numerous showings based on the post in a handful of local groups.
Once again, the listing is free, and you can use the same description and photos that you’ve used elsewhere. Just be prepared for a deluge of questions from non-serious buyers like the Facebook default “Is this still available?” to “will you rent to own (contract for deed)?” and other questions that wouldn’t have to be asked if the asker had read your full listing.
If Craigslist is fading away, the classified ads section of your local newspaper is a true relic. But it’s a relic that an older crowd who may have the means to buy your home is still browsing while sipping their morning coffee at the corner cafe.
I have not taken out a classified ad for any of our properties, but I wouldn’t rule out doing so, especially in a buyer’s market.
For Sale By Owner Websites
This is another avenue I haven’t taken, but there are at least a couple of websites that specialize in For Sale By Owner (FSBO) listings. These are not free, but won’t set you back much more than a classified ad, either.
I think you’re better off with a free Zillow listing, but it may not hurt to check out FSBO.com or forsalebyowner.com, especially if your listing has been active without much luck elsewhere.
A Yard Sign
At a minimum, you should go to your local home improvement store and pick up a big For Sale By Owner sign to display in the yard.
You might also create a flyer with the description and photos you’ve taken and print a bunch off to be kept in a waterproof info box alongside the sign. I did this for our home in Aberdeen.
Your listing should have your contact info so that people can reach you by phone, text, or email. I would also encourage you to give them a way to schedule a showing without having to contact you.
For our two most recent home sales, I set up a free account with Calendly, an online scheduling service that I’ve used numerous times as a podcast guest to find a time slot that works for the host. It works the same with home showings; your guest is the potential buyer and you’re the host of the show.
It’s great because there’s no back and forth (and back and forth and back…) communication and interested parties can only book times that you have available. You decide what time slots to make available, how long they should be, and you can block off any period of time that you have a scheduling conflict.
If you do things right, you’ll never be double-booked as long you require people to use Calendly or a similar calendar application, and the calendar will fill up automatically as interested parties book slots.
Showing Your Home
No one knows the home better than you. If you’re working and are worried that you won’t be able to accommodate most people’s schedules, remember that many potential buyers also work and will prefer nights and weekends.
Ideally, you’ll get a number of showings scheduled over a short period of time. If you have kids and pets, it might be best for them to find another place to be when you’re showing the home.
With our 2021 showings, we made the appointments 45 minutes long and left a 15-minute window between them. If you have a larger home, you may need more time.
I think it’s wise to point out both your favorite things about the home and its imperfections. The home inspection will unearth most of the home’s issues anyway, so be honest and transparent. When a buyer and seller work directly with one another, trust is important, and pointing out what’s wrong with the house can help you establish that trust quickly. Don’t dwell on the downsides, but don’t try to cover them up, either.
Just as you did when taking photos, make sure the home is clean, bright, and comfortable. Open the shades, turn on the lights, tidy up, and show your home in a positive light.
For Sale By Owner Paperwork
Make it easy for a potential buyer to make an offer. They may be accustomed to having a real estate agent handle the offer-making. The paperwork is pretty straightforward, and I like to have piles of it pre-filled for each showing.
What’s required may vary by state, but you can find free .pdf files to download for your state at eforms.com and other places.
For our most recent transactions, we downloaded, filled out, and signed a standard disclosure form stating what’s included, what’s not, and what problems we know about. A second form we did the same for is a lead-based paint disclosure form.
A third form you’ll want to make available, and perhaps partially fill out, is a residential real estate purchase agreement, which is what the potential buyer will use to make an offer..This might be 8 to 10 pages that includes the legal property description, who pays which closing costs, whether financing will be used, how property taxes due will be handled, and most importantly, the offered sales price.
Again, this is a standard form that might differ a bit from state to state or county to county, but a realtor is not needed by either party to fill it out.
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Working With a Title Company
When you close, it will be with the assistance of a title company. They’ll also do the title search and provide the title insurance.
I’m no expert on any of this, and I’d be really curious to know how often title insurance actually is used and save’s someone’s butt. Yet, I pay the cost every time, and I hope those who say that blockchain technology will eliminate the need for it are correct.
Title companies are quite useful, though, especially for the homeowner selling without representation from a real estate agent. They can help answer questions, provide the disclosure and sale agreement paperwork outlined above or at least help you locate the right forms, and they’ll be the ones to ensure the documentation is in order prior to and during the actual closing of the sale.
What I’ve always done is contact the title company that I worked with when buying the property to let them know I’d be selling it. They will have done a title search recently, so working with them again should save them some time and possibly save you some money, at least theoretically.
Working With a Real Estate Attorney?
This is something I have not done, but it is not uncommon to do so. I imagine it’s more commonplace in some states than others.
I try to avoid lawyers when possible, but I recognize that having that representation can be valuable, especially when you don’t have the services and experience of a realtor to rely upon.
As stated earlier, trust is important when making a transaction of this size with another individual. If you have any reason to question the motives or sincerity of the other party, I would not hesitate to hire an attorney to doublecheck everything and provide counsel in the event of some part of the transaction not going according to plan.
Alternatives to Selling a Home By Owner
Another option is to simply stay put, but I’m assuming your goal is to sell your home without giving up 6% of the home’s value (which might be 25% or more of your equity in the home) in realtor fees.
Selling it yourself is one option, but that’s not always feasible. Fortunately, there are other options that will cost you some money, but could save you plenty.
Flat Fee MLS
Using a flat-fee MLS company can put your home in front of thousands of realtors and on the main page of Zillow via the Multiple Listing Service. This can be a great compliment to an FSBO listing, especially if you’re willing to work with buyers’ agents.
Operating in 80+ markets in the U.S. and Canada, Redfin agents charge 1% TO 1.5% to list and sell a home. That beats 3% to 6%, which is what many traditional agents will charge when representing one or both sides of the transaction.
Sell to Zillow, Redfin, or Others
If all of this sounds like a lot of work, see what these companies are willing to pay for your home. You’ve probably seen postcards or billboards from the likes of webuyuglyhouses.com.
Zillow and Redfin also buy ugly and pretty houses and everything in between, but I’ve assumed their offers would be well under market value. I’ve heard anecdotally that this may not always be the case, so this may be a viable option after all, and it would require the least amount of hassle.
Local real estate offices may also offer this service. Sometimes, it’s a backup plan if you list with them and they’re unable to find you a buyer in a specified timeframe.
Before contemplating going this route, I’d first do the legwork to decide what you might realistically be able to get for your home if selling it yourself. If you’re offered something close to that number by one of these corporate entities, you might want to consider asking for more when listing it yourself or you may choose to simply taking the cash offer from the real estate company.
There are situations where it makes sense to work directly with a realtor when selling your home, but if you’ve got some time and a willingness to do some legwork, you can save tens of thousands of dollars in fees when you sell your home yourself. It’s not as difficult as you might think to make this a do-it-yourself endeavor.
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What experiences have you had buying and selling homes for sale by owner? Any tips you’d like to share?
22 thoughts on “Selling a Home By Owner is Easier Than You Think”
Financial differences across countries are always interesting. We sold a home in Scotland a couple of years ago and the realtor fee was 0.75%. There were a couple of additional fixed fees they charged, but in total, it came out to just over 1% of the value of the property.
Had I been quoted an eye watering 6%, we may have more seriously considered selling the property without the help of a realtor.
Wow — that is amazing. You might be able to negotiate something closer to 2% each for the buyers’ and sellers’ agents (4% total), especially for a more expensive property, but you’re not going to get anything close to that low without going on your own here in the U.S. Redfin might be the next best thing we have here.
Northern Michigan is the best! I’m glad you’re enjoying your time near all the amazing lakes.
Yes, we’re happy to call this area home once again. I write this from the cute little Topinabe library overlooking Mullett Lake.
Title Insurance: My partner is actually trying to use his title insurance, however they stated that they do not keep records past 10 years. It’s for a dispute over an easement to a private land-locked 1 acre parcel. TLDR: Title Insurance isn’t likely to be there when you need it.
FSBO with a Lawyer: I sold a piece of commercial property shortly after purchasing it. I did FSBO using a real estate attorney ($1,500) who is affiliated with my normal legal group. The agent who had just sold it to me wanted to charge considerably more for the same service.
FSBO & MLS: I haven’t done a FSBO on the open market, but in Colorado you can list your home to the MLS via some creative means.
On the title insurance, the local title insurance office or real estate attorney (whoever you originally worked with, type of company varies by state) may not have records over that period, but the title insurance underwriter behind the policy will. Their name will be listed on your policy. You should be able to reach out to them directly, or one of their local branches if they have one, to make a claim against the policy. They will certainly have a copy on record. If you don’t have a copy of the original policy, look at your settlement statement (if you have it) for the underwriter’s name, or ask that original title insurance company/attorney which underwriter(s) they worked with at the time so you can contact them directly. If you have a loan on the property, the lender may also be able to tell you who holds the title insurance. Good luck!
The other pearl I’ll drop is that the Boglehead’s “buy & hold” mantra applies to residential real estate as well. It’s an inefficient market and transaction costs are high. I no longer subscribe to the concept of a “starter home”. Save your money and buy something from the start that fits your needs. Life happens, but the fewer houses in your life the better.
You are absolutely right, PITR Doc. That’s what we tried to do, saving up to build our dream / “forever” home. But man plans and God laughs.
We’ve bought and sold far more places than I ever imagined I would, but doing FSBO as often as we did helped reduce the friction that is the transaction costs of moving from home to home.
I did a FSBO earlier this year with a single buyer. Had three realtors prepare CMAs and all were similar list & projected sales price. Went with projected sales price but appraisal came back even higher. Moral of the story is that realtors will probably attenuate your expectations from the beginning, and it’s worthwhile to test the market. My spouse didn’t want the inconvenience of staging/showing, but it would have been worthwhile to have buyers compete. That said, we were represented by a flat-fee attorney and grand total transaction costs were <1%.
Many realtors will disagree with the premise, but the fact is that realtors make more money by selling homes quickly. Volume matters much more than price. If you can sell homes in half the time and do twice the volume, who cares about getting 5% more per home?
The incentive is to move homes, not to get top dollar possible for each and every one. How individual realtors respond to that incentive will vary, obviously.
Completely agree! A five-figure improvement for a seller is only a four-figure improvement for an agent, but an additional transaction for an agent is another five-figures. The industry is ripe for disruption, IMHO. If were to do it again, I’d post a FSBO on Zillow, or hire a flat-fee MLS service.
I regret not attempting the FSBO route with my last home. We wanted to be done with DFW before the summer set in, but I ultimately could have accomplished it with merely putting a Coming Soon sign out.
The eventual buyer had found the property through a neighbor and we both ended up having incompetent agents remove $40,000 from the transaction that both of us could have used. It didn’t help that my agent fumbled the correct address on opening weekend limiting the initial rush of viewings among many other small mistakes.
I don’t think I’ll ever use an agent again, either sell it myself or keep it. Property is too expensive to disposition.
Ouch. That’s $40,000 neither of you will ever get back. The stakes were lower with the properties I’ve sold myself, but I was glad to avoid those hefty commissions, regardless.
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I love this, although it’ll be a fun day if I do sell this place myself because my best friend just got his real estate license and will probably be sad I don’t use him ☺️ I think it’ll be okay, though, maybe he can help me find a new property!
Thanks for sharing some numbers. This is my first home and I had no idea about anything when we bought it in regards to improvements and costs. Now that I’ve done some DIY myself, I can see how easily costs add up. But at this point, I know the major things that need to happen to improve the resale value of the home. I also see how some of my initial ideas were silly and how they wouldn’t get a good enough ROI. That’s mainly why I write the posts that go into all the detail of how to do stuff as an amateur but still get professional looking results and when to hire things out vs. do it yourself.
Moving that much probably wasn’t much fun. Did you hire movers for each one? At least it might have kept you lean 😋
The hospitals paid for moves to Aberdeen and Brainerd. We moved ourselves to northern Michigan in a two-step process since we sold our MN home before we had the Alpena home.
First, we moved everything to my parents’ pole barn (it was summer and the boats that occupy it half the year were in the water). From there, we moved it to Michigan once we had space for (most of) our things.
We purged and donated a fair amount of stuff and left some things with the new owners — we went through the house with them and asked if they would rather we leave a bunch of things that we didn’t plan to take. If they said yes, it stayed. If not, we got it out of there for them.
This was very interesting. I just fully retired and plan on selling my farm and downsizing my life.
Have considered the FSBO option but am not sure it’s a great idea from a safety standpoint, plus I wouldn’t want to deal with tire-kickers that cannot afford the place. Do you require prospective buyers to show proof of pre-qualification?
Interesting question about the “tire kickers.” I’d say most of them were people that saw the Facebook Marketplace ad on our Alpena house and asked questions or made comments underneath the listing or via PM. Most everyone who actually scheduled a showing were genuinely interested, and the price (listed for $118,000 and sold for $143,000) would not be cost-prohibitive for most people, unless they had destroyed their credit or had no job.
I considered asking for pre-qualification, but we did not. You do run the risk of wasting a bit of your time by not asking for it, but you might also miss out on a good prospective buyer who hasn’t taken the time to get that piece of paper if you insist upon it.
Nice work! I should have done for sale by owner in 2017, but I was too stressed with a little one. I would have saved 1.5% in fees on our sale as we’d still have to pay the buyers agent 3% in the SF rigged market. That would have been $41,000 in savings!
But our realtor got us a price $245,000 over what I thought the house might sell for. Perhaps I could have got that price anyway. Not sure!
But I’ll definitely try FSBO next time. It’s just tougher ironically when more is at stake.
Congrats on saving lots of money! And enjoy your new home!
The higher the price, the higher the stakes! It makes perfects sense to me.
Half of our buyers came to us directly with no buyer’s agent, so there is a way to avoid that fee if the buyer cooperates by not having one (2/4 for us) or they’re willing to pay that fee themselves (1/4 for us).
If you can end up with more money, net of fees, working with a realtor, then that’s the way to go. The same is true of working with a financial advisor. The value of either depends a lot on what you’re capable of doing without them.
Unless you’re in a hurry to sell, it’s not a terrible idea to start high. If you get no takers, you can lower the price and that brings the listing back to the top and anyone who’s following the listing with a “save” on Zillow or similar sites will get a notification. There is the risk that people will assume something is wrong with the place if it sits too long, especially in a market like we have now. That said, 2 properties on our lake just sold in the last few weeks after sitting on the market for 6 months & 20 months.